About Thousand Oaks
- About 130,000 people live in Thousand Oaks.
- It lies in the California region.
- It's about 2473 miles to New York, the country's largest city.
- Close by: Simi Valley (8 miles), Oxnard (19 miles) and Santa Monica (22 miles).
Dating by city / United States / California region / Thousand Oaks
Singles in Thousand Oaks
Members from Thousand Oaks and towns within 30 miles who make their profile public will appear here.
Where to meet in Thousand Oaks
For a first meeting in Thousand Oaks, keep it simple: coffee in the centre, a walk in a park or along the main street, maybe a small concert. An hour is enough to know whether you want a second date.
Staying safe
- Meet in busy public places and tell a friend where you are going.
- Never send money to people you met online.
- Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
Questions about dating in Thousand Oaks
Who can I meet near Thousand Oaks?
More than 1.2 million people live within 30 miles of Thousand Oaks, in 19 towns and cities including Oxnard, Santa Clarita and Valencia. In the app you choose the distance yourself: from 5 miles to 300 miles, or “Any distance”.
Is there a free dating site in Thousand Oaks?
Yes, completely. Nothing on YADate is paid, in Thousand Oaks or anywhere else: you can browse, like, write first and send voice messages or gifts without a subscription or credits. Daily caps exist only to stop spam: up to 40 new conversations a day, for example.
Are the singles around Thousand Oaks real people?
There are no fake profiles here: YADate doesn't create them or chat on anyone's behalf. Photos go live only after a moderator approves them, every account confirms an email address, and reports are reviewed by people. If someone asks for money or rushes you onto another app, report them — a moderator will look into it.
Can I meet someone who doesn't live in Thousand Oaks?
Yes. Pick any other city in the filters, at home or abroad, and YADate shows the people there.
Dating tips
Profile & photos
How to write a profile that gets replies
Your profile is your first hello. How to write a few honest lines and choose photos that make people want to start a conversation.
First messages
First messages that actually start a conversation
“Hi, how are you?” rarely gets far. How to write a first message that is easy and pleasant to answer — with examples you can adapt.
First dates
First date ideas that are easy and safe
The best first dates are short, public and relaxed. Ideas that leave room to talk — plus simple safety habits that let you enjoy the meeting.