Dating by city / United States / California region / San Jose
Looking for a date, something serious or new friends in San Jose? Create a profile and you could be the first local on this page.
Ask the other person to pick their favourite café in San Jose. It tells you something about them, and they will feel at ease on familiar ground.
More than 2.8 million people live within 30 miles of San Jose, in 39 towns and cities including Fremont, Hayward and Sunnyvale. You set the distance yourself in the filters, from 5 miles up to 300 miles — or choose “Any distance”.
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Profile & photos
Your profile is your first hello. How to write a few honest lines and choose photos that make people want to start a conversation.
First messages
“Hi, how are you?” rarely gets far. How to write a first message that is easy and pleasant to answer — with examples you can adapt.
First dates
The best first dates are short, public and relaxed. Ideas that leave room to talk — plus simple safety habits that let you enjoy the meeting.