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Saint James at a glance

  • Saint James has a population of about 13,000.
  • It's part of New York.
  • It's about 46 miles to New York, the country's largest city.
  • The nearest bigger city is Brentwood, about 8 miles away.
  • Towns nearby: Fairfield (19 miles), East Norwalk (20 miles) and Bridgeport (21 miles).

Where to meet in Saint James

Everyone in Saint James knows the local café, which is exactly why it works for a first date: public, easy to find, no pressure. A walk around town can come after.

Staying safe

  • Meet in busy public places and tell a friend where you are going.
  • Never send money to people you met online.
  • Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.

Dating in Saint James: questions and answers

How far around Saint James can I search?

Within 30 miles of Saint James there are 160 towns and cities — Bridgeport, Stamford and North Stamford among them — with more than 3.3 million residents in all. You set the distance yourself in the filters, from 5 miles up to 300 miles — or choose “Any distance”.

Is online dating in Saint James free on YADate?

Yes. YADate is a free online dating site, in Saint James and everywhere else: profiles, search filters, likes, messages, voice messages and gifts cost nothing, and there is no premium plan. The only limits are daily caps against spam, such as 40 new conversations a day.

Are the profiles near Saint James real?

YADate never creates fake profiles or writes on behalf of people who don't exist. A moderator checks every photo before it appears, every member confirms an email address, and any profile can be reported. If someone asks for money or rushes you onto another app, report them — a moderator will look into it.

Can I date someone from outside Saint James?

Yes. In the filters you can search around any other city, in the United States or abroad.

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