Dating by city / United States / Tennessee / Oakland
No one from Oakland has a public profile here yet. Create yours and people nearby will be able to find you.
In a small place like Oakland, many people date someone from a nearby town too. Meeting halfway — in Cordova, for example — keeps it easy for both of you.
Within 30 miles of Oakland there are 15 towns and cities — Cordova, Bartlett and Collierville among them — with more than 350,000 residents in all. You set the distance yourself in the filters, from 5 miles up to 300 miles — or choose “Any distance”.
Yes. YADate is a free online dating site, in Oakland and everywhere else: profiles, search filters, likes, messages, voice messages and gifts cost nothing, and there is no premium plan. The only limits are daily caps against spam, such as 40 new conversations a day.
There are no fake profiles here: YADate doesn't create them or chat on anyone's behalf. Photos go live only after a moderator approves them, every account confirms an email address, and reports are reviewed by people. Anyone who asks for money or pushes you to move to another app straight away is worth reporting.
Yes. In the filters you can search around any other city, in the United States or abroad.
Profile & photos
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First messages
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First dates
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