A few facts about New York
- About 8.8 million people live in New York, the biggest city in the United States.
- It's the main city of the region of the same name.
- Close by: Jersey City (4 miles), Union City (5 miles) and North Bergen (6 miles).
Dating by city / United States / New York / New York
Singles in New York
No one from New York has a public profile here yet. Create yours and people nearby will be able to find you.
Where to meet in New York
In a city the size of New York, pick a place you can both reach in half an hour: a café near a metro or bus stop, an exhibition, a food market or a walk in a central park. Weekday evenings are quieter than Saturdays.
Staying safe
- Meet in busy public places and tell a friend where you are going.
- Never send money to people you met online.
- Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
Dating in New York: questions and answers
Who can I meet near New York?
More than 15 million people live within 30 miles of New York, in 292 towns and cities including Newark, Jersey City and Yonkers. In the app you choose the distance yourself: from 5 miles to 300 miles, or “Any distance”.
Is there a free dating site in New York?
Yes, completely. Nothing on YADate is paid, in New York or anywhere else: you can browse, like, write first and send voice messages or gifts without a subscription or credits. Daily caps exist only to stop spam: up to 40 new conversations a day, for example.
Are the singles around New York real people?
There are no fake profiles here: YADate doesn't create them or chat on anyone's behalf. Photos go live only after a moderator approves them, every account confirms an email address, and reports are reviewed by people. Anyone who asks for money or pushes you to move to another app straight away is worth reporting.
Can I meet someone who doesn't live in New York?
Yes. Pick any other city in the filters, at home or abroad, and YADate shows the people there.
Around New York: districts and suburbs
Dating tips
Profile & photos
How to write a profile that gets replies
Your profile is your first hello. How to write a few honest lines and choose photos that make people want to start a conversation.
First messages
First messages that actually start a conversation
“Hi, how are you?” rarely gets far. How to write a first message that is easy and pleasant to answer — with examples you can adapt.
First dates
First date ideas that are easy and safe
The best first dates are short, public and relaxed. Ideas that leave room to talk — plus simple safety habits that let you enjoy the meeting.