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Dating in Durham, New Hampshire

Members from Durham and towns within 30 miles who make their profile public will appear here.

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A few facts about Durham

  • Durham has a population of about 10,000.
  • It's part of New Hampshire.
  • New York, the largest city in the United States, is about 230 miles away.
  • The nearest bigger city is Haverhill, about 26 miles away.
  • Towns nearby: Derry Village (26 miles), Manchester (28 miles) and Methuen (31 miles).

A first date in Durham

In a small place like Durham, many people date someone from a nearby town too. Meeting halfway — in Haverhill, for example — keeps it easy for both of you.

Staying safe

  • Meet in busy public places and tell a friend where you are going.
  • Never send money to people you met online.
  • Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.

Dating in Durham: questions and answers

Who can I meet near Durham?

Within 30 miles of Durham there are 42 towns and cities — Manchester, Haverhill and Derry Village among them — with more than 630,000 residents in all. In the app you choose the distance yourself: from 5 miles to 300 miles, or “Any distance”.

Is there a free dating site in Durham?

Yes. YADate is a free online dating site, in Durham and everywhere else: profiles, search filters, likes, messages, voice messages and gifts cost nothing, and there is no premium plan. Daily caps exist only to stop spam: up to 40 new conversations a day, for example.

Are the singles around Durham real people?

There are no fake profiles here: YADate doesn't create them or chat on anyone's behalf. Photos go live only after a moderator approves them, every account confirms an email address, and reports are reviewed by people. If someone asks for money or rushes you onto another app, report them — a moderator will look into it.

Can I date someone from outside Durham?

Yes. Pick any other city in the filters, at home or abroad, and YADate shows the people there.

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