About Bakersfield
- About 370,000 people live in Bakersfield.
- It lies in the California region.
- New York, the largest city in the United States, is about 2450 miles away.
- Close by: Rosedale (7 miles), Lamont (10 miles) and Arvin (16 miles).
Dating by city / United States / California region / Bakersfield
Dating in Bakersfield
Looking for a date, something serious or new friends in Bakersfield? Create a profile and you could be the first local on this page.
First-date ideas for Bakersfield
Choose somewhere central in Bakersfield that you both know — a café, a bookshop with a coffee corner, a market. Daylight and people around make a first meeting easier for both of you.
Staying safe
- Meet in busy public places and tell a friend where you are going.
- Never send money to people you met online.
- Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
Dating in Bakersfield: questions and answers
How far around Bakersfield can I search?
More than 500,000 people live within 30 miles of Bakersfield, in 10 towns and cities including Wasco, Arvin and Shafter. You set the distance yourself in the filters, from 5 miles up to 300 miles — or choose “Any distance”.
Is online dating in Bakersfield free on YADate?
Yes, completely. Nothing on YADate is paid, in Bakersfield or anywhere else: you can browse, like, write first and send voice messages or gifts without a subscription or credits. The only limits are daily caps against spam, such as 40 new conversations a day.
Are the profiles near Bakersfield real?
There are no fake profiles here: YADate doesn't create them or chat on anyone's behalf. Photos go live only after a moderator approves them, every account confirms an email address, and reports are reviewed by people. If someone asks for money or rushes you onto another app, report them — a moderator will look into it.
Can I meet someone who doesn't live in Bakersfield?
Yes. In the filters you can search around any other city, in the United States or abroad.
Dating tips
Profile & photos
How to write a profile that gets replies
Your profile is your first hello. How to write a few honest lines and choose photos that make people want to start a conversation.
First messages
First messages that actually start a conversation
“Hi, how are you?” rarely gets far. How to write a first message that is easy and pleasant to answer — with examples you can adapt.
First dates
First date ideas that are easy and safe
The best first dates are short, public and relaxed. Ideas that leave room to talk — plus simple safety habits that let you enjoy the meeting.