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Grahamstown at a glance

  • Grahamstown has a population of about 92,000.
  • It lies in the Eastern Cape.
  • Johannesburg, the largest city in South Africa, is about 803 km away.
  • The nearest bigger city is Gqeberha, about 112 km away.
  • Close by: Bathurst (35 km), Alexandria (40 km) and Port Alfred (45 km).

Where to meet in Grahamstown

Daytime dates suit a town like Grahamstown: a late breakfast or a walk before lunch feels relaxed and ends on its own.

Staying safe

  • Meet in busy public places and tell a friend where you are going.
  • Never send money to people you met online.
  • Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.

Questions about dating in Grahamstown

How far around Grahamstown can I search?

Within 50 km of Grahamstown there are 4 towns and cities — Port Alfred, Alexandria and Bathurst among them — with more than 140,000 residents in all. In the app you choose the distance yourself: from 10 km to 500 km, or “Any distance”.

Is online dating in Grahamstown free on YADate?

Yes. YADate is a free online dating site, in Grahamstown and everywhere else: profiles, search filters, likes, messages, voice messages and gifts cost nothing, and there is no premium plan. The only limits are daily caps against spam, such as 40 new conversations a day.

Are the profiles near Grahamstown real?

YADate never creates fake profiles or writes on behalf of people who don't exist. A moderator checks every photo before it appears, every member confirms an email address, and any profile can be reported. Anyone who asks for money or pushes you to move to another app straight away is worth reporting.

Can I date someone from outside Grahamstown?

Yes. In the filters you can search around any other city, in South Africa or abroad.

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