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Meet people in Durban

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A few facts about Durban

  • About 3.3 million people live in Durban, one of the three biggest cities in South Africa.
  • It's the largest place in KwaZulu-Natal.
  • It's about 501 km to Johannesburg, the country's largest city.
  • Close by: eManzimtoti (26 km), Inanda (29 km) and Hazelmere (29 km).

Where to meet in Durban

In a city the size of Durban, pick a place you can both reach in half an hour: a café near a metro or bus stop, an exhibition, a food market or a walk in a central park. Weekday evenings are quieter than Saturdays.

Staying safe

  • Meet in busy public places and tell a friend where you are going.
  • Never send money to people you met online.
  • Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.

Dating in Durban: questions and answers

Who can I meet near Durban?

Within 50 km of Durban there are 12 towns and cities — Mpumalanga, Tongaat and Ballitoville among them — with more than 3.6 million residents in all. In the app you choose the distance yourself: from 10 km to 500 km, or “Any distance”.

Is there a free dating site in Durban?

Yes. YADate is a free online dating site, in Durban and everywhere else: profiles, search filters, likes, messages, voice messages and gifts cost nothing, and there is no premium plan. Daily caps exist only to stop spam: up to 40 new conversations a day, for example.

Are the singles around Durban real people?

There are no fake profiles here: YADate doesn't create them or chat on anyone's behalf. Photos go live only after a moderator approves them, every account confirms an email address, and reports are reviewed by people. Anyone who asks for money or pushes you to move to another app straight away is worth reporting.

Can I date someone from outside Durban?

Yes. Pick any other city in the filters, at home or abroad, and YADate shows the people there.

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