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A few facts about Kota Kinabalu

  • Kota Kinabalu has about 500,000 residents, which puts it in the top 20 cities of Malaysia.
  • No town in Sabah is bigger.
  • It's about 1625 km to Kuala Lumpur, the country's largest city.
  • Towns nearby: Donggongon (8 km), Kinarut (17 km) and Papar (31 km).

A first date in Kota Kinabalu

Ask the other person to pick their favourite café in Kota Kinabalu. It tells you something about them, and they will feel at ease on familiar ground.

Staying safe

  • Meet in busy public places and tell a friend where you are going.
  • Never send money to people you met online.
  • Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.

Dating in Kota Kinabalu: questions and answers

How far around Kota Kinabalu can I search?

More than 640,000 people live within 50 km of Kota Kinabalu, in 5 towns and cities including Donggongon, Tambunan and Papar. You set the distance yourself in the filters, from 10 km up to 500 km — or choose “Any distance”.

Is online dating in Kota Kinabalu free on YADate?

Yes, completely. Nothing on YADate is paid, in Kota Kinabalu or anywhere else: you can browse, like, write first and send voice messages or gifts without a subscription or credits. The only limits are daily caps against spam, such as 40 new conversations a day.

Are the profiles near Kota Kinabalu real?

There are no fake profiles here: YADate doesn't create them or chat on anyone's behalf. Photos go live only after a moderator approves them, every account confirms an email address, and reports are reviewed by people. Anyone who asks for money or pushes you to move to another app straight away is worth reporting.

Can I meet someone who doesn't live in Kota Kinabalu?

Yes. In the filters you can search around any other city, in Malaysia or abroad.

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