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Dating in Bekasi

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A few facts about Bekasi

  • About 2.6 million people live in Bekasi, one of the three biggest cities in Indonesia.
  • It's the largest place in West Java.
  • It's about 16 km to Jakarta, the country's largest city.
  • Close by: Jakarta (16 km), Cikarang (18 km) and Depok (26 km).

A first date in Bekasi

In a city the size of Bekasi, pick a place you can both reach in half an hour: a café near a metro or bus stop, an exhibition, a food market or a walk in a central park. Weekday evenings are quieter than Saturdays.

Staying safe

  • Meet in busy public places and tell a friend where you are going.
  • Never send money to people you met online.
  • Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.

Dating in Bekasi: questions and answers

Who can I meet near Bekasi?

More than 18 million people live within 50 km of Bekasi, in 13 towns and cities including Jakarta, Depok and Tangerang. In the app you choose the distance yourself: from 10 km to 500 km, or “Any distance”.

Is there a free dating site in Bekasi?

Yes, completely. Nothing on YADate is paid, in Bekasi or anywhere else: you can browse, like, write first and send voice messages or gifts without a subscription or credits. Daily caps exist only to stop spam: up to 40 new conversations a day, for example.

Are the singles around Bekasi real people?

YADate never creates fake profiles or writes on behalf of people who don't exist. A moderator checks every photo before it appears, every member confirms an email address, and any profile can be reported. If someone asks for money or rushes you onto another app, report them — a moderator will look into it.

Can I date someone from outside Bekasi?

Yes. Pick any other city in the filters, at home or abroad, and YADate shows the people there.

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