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Meet people in Cologne

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About Cologne

  • Cologne is among the ten largest cities in Germany; about 1 million people live here.
  • No town in North Rhine-Westphalia is bigger.
  • Berlin, the largest city in Germany, is about 479 km away.
  • Towns nearby: Bergisch Gladbach (14 km), Bonn (24 km) and Solingen (28 km).

Where to meet in Cologne

In a city the size of Cologne, pick a place you can both reach in half an hour: a café near a metro or bus stop, an exhibition, a food market or a walk in a central park. Weekday evenings are quieter than Saturdays.

Staying safe

  • Meet in busy public places and tell a friend where you are going.
  • Never send money to people you met online.
  • Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.

Dating in Cologne: questions and answers

Who can I meet near Cologne?

More than 5.7 million people live within 50 km of Cologne, in 103 towns and cities including Düsseldorf, Wuppertal and Bonn. You set the distance yourself in the filters, from 10 km up to 500 km — or choose “Any distance”.

Is there a free dating site in Cologne?

Yes, completely. Nothing on YADate is paid, in Cologne or anywhere else: you can browse, like, write first and send voice messages or gifts without a subscription or credits. Daily caps exist only to stop spam: up to 40 new conversations a day, for example.

Are the singles around Cologne real people?

YADate never creates fake profiles or writes on behalf of people who don't exist. A moderator checks every photo before it appears, every member confirms an email address, and any profile can be reported. Anyone who asks for money or pushes you to move to another app straight away is worth reporting.

Can I meet someone who doesn't live in Cologne?

Yes. Pick any other city in the filters, at home or abroad, and YADate shows the people there.

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